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Exposing A Few Myts Regarding Divorcing

by Gene Vasquez

Ending a marriage is always a major life event, and it is important to be as informed as possible about these proceedings if you are to ensure that your rights are protected during the divorce process. Some misconceptions regarding divorce can mislead those that are considering this option.

Myth: A Divorce Should Be A Source Of Guilt

Guilt is often a problem for those that are going through a divorce. It can be common for those that know the couple to inadvertently insinuate that the couple quit the marriage too soon or that they should be stigmatized. However, it is a reality that relationships can change or fail. Also, it can be possible for the marriage to be abusive, and when this is the situation divorce can be both the most practical as well as the safest option. By accepting that divorce is a normal aspect of life, you can help to ensure that you are making the choices that are the best for your particular situation.

Myth: Hiring An Attorney Will Make The Divorce Contentious

Hiring legal representation can be among the most important things that you do during your divorce. Sadly, people will frequently avoid hiring an attorney due to concerns about causing further strife. Yet, there is simply no other way to effectively ensure that your rights are being protected and that the paperwork is properly prepared. Furthermore, attorneys can actually help to reduce the conflict during a divorce as they can act as intermediaries between the two spouses. Some individuals may attempt to share an attorney during this process as they feel it may cut down on conflict, but it can be impossible for an attorney to adequately represent both sides of a divorce. By hiring your own divorce lawyer, you can ensure that your attorney has your best interests at heart throughout the case.

Myth: It Is Only Worth Hiring An Attorney If You Have Substantial Assets

Another frequent belief about hiring a divorce attorney is that they are only worth the expense when you have substantial assets that will need to be divided. While an attorney can certainly be worth the costs in these situations, this representation can help almost anyone that is going through these proceedings. In particular, those that have children or will need to request spousal support can greatly benefit from this representation as they may need an attorney to aggressively argue for their side in the divorce. After your initial consultation, your attorney will have a much better understanding about the circumstances of your divorce, and this should enable them to provide guidance about how they will be able to help you through the divorce process.

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